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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.



I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read


Extrovert Soul, Introvert Body
"Extrovert soul with an introvert body” hit a little too close to home. This is about wanting connection but needing space, feeling like two versions of yourself at once, and learning how to exist without forcing yourself to fit one box.
May 134 min read


I Want to Vlog Again…
I want to start vlogging again so bad. I’ve got a new phone, no real excuses, and a life I actually want to document… so why can’t I just hit record? Late-night thoughts on overthinking, starting over, and getting out of my own way.
Apr 226 min read


The Millennials Are Still Here
Millennials didn’t stop creating, life just got heavy. Jobs, bills, burnout, and mental health pushed a lot of us off the internet for a while. But we still have stories, perspective, and lived experience worth sharing. Maybe it’s time for us to start creating again.
Apr 84 min read


The 6-Month Plan
I’m locking in for the next six months. After realizing how many “six-month windows” I’ve wasted over the years, I’m finally making a realistic plan: writing my book, getting consistent online, fixing my budget, and trying to build habits that might actually stick.
Mar 255 min read


We Were Never Meant to Have It All Figured Out
A late-night reflection on being a millennial, growing older, unlearning hustle culture, and realizing maybe we weren’t meant to have it all figured out—just to make space for the ones coming after us.
Feb 184 min read


Own Yourself in the Moment
Thinking back on a moment I wish I’d shown up more confidently and realizing how often we shrink when we’re out of our element. This is about owning who you are in real time, taking up space, and letting yourself be seen.
Feb 45 min read


where do you see yourself in five years?
I’ve always hated the question “where do you see yourself in five years?” This is me unpacking why it’s not about knowing the future, but about wanting something enough to set an intention — and finally answering it at 35.
Jan 294 min read


The Capricorn Contradiction
I’ve spent my life feeling like my ambition and my brain were at odds. This is me unpacking what it’s like to be a Capricorn with ADHD and autism, unlearning burnout, and redefining what success actually looks like.
Jan 224 min read
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