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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.



I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read


Weed Out What Doesn't Serve You
A midnight reflection on choosing yourself and recognizing your worth, inspired by watching my girlfriend walk away from a toxic workplace. This personal essay explores the myth of being "stuck," the power of saying no, and why choosing yourself isn't selfish – it's survival.
May 19, 20253 min read


Midnight Comfort: Why Breaking Free from Your Safe Space Feels Like Magic
Discover why staying in your comfort zone might be holding you back from reaching your true potential. From midnight scrolling to life-changing decisions, explore how embracing discomfort leads to personal growth, and learn practical steps to start expanding your boundaries - one small brave choice at a time.
May 12, 20254 min read


Project Hunter: Becoming the Author I’ve Always Been
Late night confessions: I'm writing a book! Join me on this journey as I share the behind-the-scenes of crafting a spicy adult romance set in the Canadian prairies. From midnight writing sessions to character development and creative breakthroughs, follow along as I transform from blogger to novelist!
May 5, 20253 min read


Just Because You Don’t Have It Yet, Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Somewhere on Your Timeline
Waiting feels like watching delivery status updates - we're all just refreshing life's app, hoping our dreams aren't lost in transit. Sometimes being patient is the hardest part of manifesting magic.
May 1, 20253 min read


Getting Older Means Understanding More—And That’s Bittersweet (Trigger Warning!)
A personal reflection on understanding a father's mental health struggles through aging, exploring grief, growth, and the bittersweet wisdom
Apr 28, 20254 min read


Death to Your 20s: A Love Letter to the ‘95 Babies Hitting 30
A heartfelt reflection on turning 30, trading chaotic 20s for controlled magic. For '95 babies ready to shine in their dirty thirties.
Apr 14, 20253 min read


Don’t Put It Down, Put It Away: A Love Letter to My ADHD Brain
A mindful guide to ADHD challenges, transforming "don't put it down, put it away" into relatable strategies for our chaotic brains.
Apr 4, 20253 min read


Springtime Shenanigans: A GSP Guide to Thawing Out Your Soul
Spring has entered the chat. We survived winter's Netflix marathons and questionable choices. Snow's finally giving up our friends are back.
Mar 20, 20253 min read
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