Some of the safest people I’ve ever known started as usernames on a screen. I’m talking about online friendship, growing apart, finding your way back, and why distance has never made a friendship less real to me.

After seventeen years of history, one year of almost, and six months of being terrified to ask for more, I finally got to call my best friend my girlfriend. Two years later, this is my little love manifesto to us.

Apparently I'm a savage in my sleep. After my girlfriend asked for a little room in bed half-asleep me decided the correct response was "that sounds like a you problem." A very Canadian, very embarassing, middle-of-the-night relationship story.

A low-pressure Valentine’s Day guide from a lesbian couple figuring it out in real time. No grand gestures or forced romance—just honest thoughts on how to enjoy the day in a way that actually feels good.

Big life update: my girlfriend and I are moving out together for the first time! Two lives, three cats, four fans, and all the cozy chaos. Follow along as we navigate love, life, and this exciting next chapter.

After being made to feel “too much” for wanting closeness, I’ve learned that clingy love isn’t weakness—it’s warmth. This post explores why needing someone isn’t desperate, it’s human. Give me the love that shows up, not the love that plays it cool.

Growing apart doesn’t always mean falling out — sometimes it’s just life shifting around you. A reflective look at friendship, distance, and learning to love people from afar, even when you don’t know where you stand anymore.

It’s hard being the single friend in a group with a couple. Lately, it’s felt less like I’m part of things and more like I’m just there. A late-night ramble about loneliness, friendship, and why I’ve started pulling back.