I saw something on TikTok that hit harder than expected: don’t break your heart trying to protect others. This is about overgiving, expecting yourself from other people, and learning that not everyone is built with the same level of care you are.

A midnight reflection on choosing yourself and recognizing your worth, inspired by watching my girlfriend walk away from a toxic workplace. This personal essay explores the myth of being "stuck," the power of saying no, and why choosing yourself isn't selfish – it's survival.

When we dim our self-worth, that energy ripples out, touching everyone in our circle. Your vibe is their background music. Let's turn it up!