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I Think I Need to Go Offline

I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.

Unpacking

4 days ago6 min read

where do you see yourself in five years?

I’ve always hated the question “where do you see yourself in five years?” This is me unpacking why it’s not about knowing the future, but about wanting something enough to set an intention — and finally answering it at 35.

Figuring It Out

Jan 294 min read

Relearning Who "Me" Is

I’ve been realizing lately that I don’t really know who I am anymore—or at least, not like I used to. This post is me trying to untangle that feeling, to figure out what “being myself” even means after losing touch with my spark for so long.

Unpacking

Oct 7, 20252 min read

On Grief, Growth, and Becoming Someone New

Reflecting on past versions of yourself can be heartbreaking—especially after deep loss. This honest journal-style entry explores grief, identity, therapy, and the quiet courage it takes to keep going when you barely recognize yourself.

Unpacking

Jun 17, 20253 min read

Just Because You Don’t Have It Yet, Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Somewhere on Your Timeline

Waiting feels like watching delivery status updates - we're all just refreshing life's app, hoping our dreams aren't lost in transit. Sometimes being patient is the hardest part of manifesting magic.

Figuring It Out

May 1, 20253 min read