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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.



I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read


Valentine’s Day, But Make It Lesbian
A low-pressure Valentine’s Day guide from a lesbian couple figuring it out in real time. No grand gestures or forced romance—just honest thoughts on how to enjoy the day in a way that actually feels good.
Feb 113 min read


MJ’s Mailbox: Real Talk for Tired Creatives
Feeling stuck between burnout and the urge to create? A reader writes in asking how to stay consistent as a creative when life keeps lifing—and MJ writes back.
Aug 19, 20252 min read


The Start of Us
My girlfriend moved in, the power went out, our cats became roommates, and somehow we’re making it work. A chaotic but soft launch into cohabitation, love, and main character energy in the middle of Saskatoon summer.
Jul 29, 20252 min read


Finding Myself in 2024: A Journey
A raw journey of self-discovery in 2024: from heartbreak to coming out, finding authentic love, and embracing a new chapter of growth.
Jan 6, 20254 min read


Growing Together: A New Year’s Manifesto on Love
A New Year's manifesto about choosing love, embracing imperfection, and building a deeper connection in the present moment.
Dec 30, 20244 min read
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