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THE LOFT EDIT
Blog
Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.
I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read
The Better Half of Summer
Watching raspberries overripen, weeds swallow my sunflower and spiderwebs take over the patio has me wondering where summer went, why the second half feels different, and what you start when it feels too late to begin.
Aug 265 min read
Feeling Like a Stranger in Your Own Family
Feeling like a stranger in your own family is a weird kind of grief. This one is about being raised by my grandparents, losing the thread after my grandma passed, and learning that being related is not the same as being known.
May 206 min read
"Ken's Daughter"
A deeply personal reflection on family, loss, and growing up feeling like an outsider in your own bloodline. Navigating grief, distance, and identity — and the ache of being known only as Ken’s daughter.
Nov 4, 20253 min read
Getting Older Means Understanding More—And That’s Bittersweet (Trigger Warning!)
A personal reflection on understanding a father's mental health struggles through aging, exploring grief, growth, and the bittersweet wisdom
Apr 28, 20254 min read
Death to Your 20s: A Love Letter to the ‘95 Babies Hitting 30
A heartfelt reflection on turning 30, trading chaotic 20s for controlled magic. For '95 babies ready to shine in their dirty thirties.
Apr 14, 20253 min read
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