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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.
I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read
Who Would I Be?
I keep asking myself who I’d be without the trauma. Without the loss, the foster homes, the abandonment, the versions of me that had to survive too early. This isn’t a polished answer. It’s me sitting with the question and not looking away.
Mar 45 min read
"Ken's Daughter"
A deeply personal reflection on family, loss, and growing up feeling like an outsider in your own bloodline. Navigating grief, distance, and identity — and the ache of being known only as Ken’s daughter.
Nov 4, 20253 min read
On Grief, Growth, and Becoming Someone New
Reflecting on past versions of yourself can be heartbreaking—especially after deep loss. This honest journal-style entry explores grief, identity, therapy, and the quiet courage it takes to keep going when you barely recognize yourself.
Jun 17, 20253 min read
Getting Older Means Understanding More—And That’s Bittersweet (Trigger Warning!)
A personal reflection on understanding a father's mental health struggles through aging, exploring grief, growth, and the bittersweet wisdom
Apr 28, 20254 min read
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