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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.



I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read


Not Our Year, Always My Team
I became a Chiefs fan during a Super Bowl win and didn’t expect how hard a rough season would hit. This post is me sitting with disappointment, learning what fandom really means, and why I’m still here even when it’s clearly not our year.
Jan 83 min read


No Resolutions, Just Showing Up
A reflective New Year’s Eve blog about failed sourdough, abandoned resolutions, and choosing to show up imperfectly. A millennial perspective on letting go of New Year’s resolutions and learning to see things through—even when the outcome isn’t what you imagined.
Jan 12 min read


Christmas in the 90s
A nostalgic reflection on Christmas in the 90s—loud family gatherings, tangled lights, mismatched traditions, and the kind of holiday magic millennials grew up with and quietly miss as Christmas feels different in adulthood.
Dec 25, 20253 min read


You Don’t Have to Like Taylor Swift — But Hating Her Is Weird
You don’t have to love Taylor Swift’s music to recognize her empathy, work ethic, and sincerity. This blog post explores why disliking her art is fine—but hating her as a person says more about us than it does about her.
Dec 18, 20253 min read


I Had a Dream That I Died
A reflective deep dive into a vivid dream where I experienced my own symbolic “death.” Exploring the mattress, decomposition, and strange calm that followed, this post unpacks what endings, transformation, and subconscious shifts can really mean.
Dec 9, 20252 min read


MJ’s Mailbox: Learning to Move Forward Again
A heartfelt MJ’s Mailbox entry diving into the fear of change, empty-room loneliness, and learning to rebuild your life one honest moment at a time. For anyone standing at the edge of a new chapter and wondering if it’s finally time to leap.
Dec 2, 20253 min read


A Love Letter to Being a Football Fan
A heartfelt, millennial-coded love letter to football—from accidentally catching the end of Super Bowl LVIII to becoming fully invested in the Chiefs’ 2025 roller-coaster season. Falling in love with the chaos, the hope, and the heart of the game.
Nov 25, 20253 min read


We're Moving
Big life update: my girlfriend and I are moving out together for the first time! Two lives, three cats, four fans, and all the cozy chaos. Follow along as we navigate love, life, and this exciting next chapter.
Nov 18, 20253 min read
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