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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.



I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read


Weed Out What Doesn't Serve You
A midnight reflection on choosing yourself and recognizing your worth, inspired by watching my girlfriend walk away from a toxic workplace. This personal essay explores the myth of being "stuck," the power of saying no, and why choosing yourself isn't selfish – it's survival.
May 19, 20253 min read


It’s Not That Serious, Bro: The Ultimate Guide to Chilling Out
A relatable late-night reflection on anxiety, overthinking, and learning to let go. This comforting piece explores the universal experience of lying awake at 2 AM, overthinking life's awkward moments, and finding peace in the shared human experience of just trying our best.
May 8, 20253 min read


Just Because You Don’t Have It Yet, Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Somewhere on Your Timeline
Waiting feels like watching delivery status updates - we're all just refreshing life's app, hoping our dreams aren't lost in transit. Sometimes being patient is the hardest part of manifesting magic.
May 1, 20253 min read


The Mean Girl Syndrome: Some Girls Never Grow Out of Their Regina George Phase
From office politics to mean girl energy, let's talk about those who never left high school. True power isn't making others feel small.
Apr 10, 20254 min read


Don’t Put It Down, Put It Away: A Love Letter to My ADHD Brain
A mindful guide to ADHD challenges, transforming "don't put it down, put it away" into relatable strategies for our chaotic brains.
Apr 4, 20253 min read


Friends First? In This Economy?!
In this speed-dating world, being friends first feels vintage—like finding someone who actually reads those endless app terms & conditions.
Mar 27, 20256 min read


Why TikTok Is Actually Good for Society (Yes, Really)
From viral dances to industry disruption: How TikTok is building a more creative & connected world, despite what the haters say.
Mar 24, 20255 min read


Men Think They Built Us—And Bestie, That's Their Cutest Delusion Yet
Men don't just want to watch women succeed—they want to be the main character in our story. They want to control the narrative.
Mar 17, 20255 min read
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