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THE LOFT EDIT
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Personal essays, life updates, creative spirals, bookish thoughts, and cozy chaos.



I Think I Need to Go Offline
I think I need to go offline for a while. Somewhere between blogging, scrolling, creating and constantly thinking about what comes next, I lost track of who I am when nobody’s watching. So I’m logging off a little and trying to find her again.
4 days ago6 min read


MJ’s Mailbox: Real Talk for Tired Creatives
Feeling stuck between burnout and the urge to create? A reader writes in asking how to stay consistent as a creative when life keeps lifing—and MJ writes back.
Aug 19, 20252 min read


One Year Later and I’m Still Oversharing
Celebrating one year of The Pot Ponderer — a chaotic, heartfelt journey through blogging, burnout, blunts, and becoming. From late-night rambles to main character moments, here’s what a year of consistent oversharing on the internet really looks like.
Aug 12, 20253 min read


Burnt Out, But I Don’t Want to Stop
Feeling creatively burned out but unable to stop? I’m stuck between survival mode and trying to chase my dreams. Here’s an honest look at burnout, frustration, and the struggle to keep going.
Jul 15, 20252 min read


A Love Letter to My Reading Era
A personal reflection on losing and finding your way back to reading, featuring soul-sucking retail jobs, romance novels that hit different, and those precious moments between customers when stories become sanctuaries. From sneaking books behind the counter to rediscovering the magic with Ana Huang's King of Envy, this is about how sometimes the things we love most just need a different kind of quiet to find their way back home.
May 27, 20253 min read


How a Whiteboard Became My ADHD Bestie
Discover how a simple whiteboard became an unexpected ADHD management tool in this raw and relatable story about finding peace with a chaotic mind. From late-night productivity spirals to morning coffee revelations, explore how sometimes the best solutions aren't about forcing organization, but giving your thoughts room to breathe.
May 22, 20252 min read


WTF Is a First Draft?
A midnight confessional from a romance writer wrestling with perfectionism and first-draft anxiety. Explore the honest struggles of creative overthinking, complete with cold Tim Hortons cups, research rabbit holes, and the courage it takes to finally write that messy first page.
May 15, 20253 min read


Project Hunter: Becoming the Author I’ve Always Been
Late night confessions: I'm writing a book! Join me on this journey as I share the behind-the-scenes of crafting a spicy adult romance set in the Canadian prairies. From midnight writing sessions to character development and creative breakthroughs, follow along as I transform from blogger to novelist!
May 5, 20253 min read


50 Posts Later: The Art of Throwing Noodles at the Wall
A milestone reflection on 50 posts, exploring GirlyStonerPop journey, lessons in content creation and the power of authentic storytelling.
Apr 17, 20253 min read
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